1/2 cup mayonnaise*1/3 cup sugar1/4 cup milk1/4 cup buttermilk2 1/2 tablespoons lemon juice1 1/2 tablespoons white vinegar1/2 teaspoon salt1/8 teaspoon pepper8 cups finely chopped cabbage (approx. 1 head)1/4 cup shredded carrot (1 medium carrot)2 tab