lazy days oatmeal cake

Ingredients For lazy days oatmeal cake

• 1 1/4 cups boiling water
• 1 cup oatmeal-regaular
• 1/2 cup butter,softened
• 1 cup -regular sugar or splenda
• 1 cup brown sugar
• 1 tsp. vanilla extract
• 2 large eggs
• 1 1/2 cups self-rising flour
• 1/4 tsp.cinnamon
• 1/4 tsp.nutmeg
• ( topping )
• 1/4 cup butter, melted
• 1/2 cup brown sugar
• 3 tbsp. half -n- half
• 1/3 cup chopped pecans
• 3/4 cups grated coconut